The confetti has been swept up and the thank you cards are (nearly) written. But what about the veil on the back of the door, the bouquet wilting in a vase and the dress you can't quite bring yourself to box away? I share what I kept, what I wish I had, and the three Directory partners who can help you hold on to it all.
The pieces that stay with you
I married on 12th September. A few weeks on, the day still feels close enough to touch, and so do the pieces I carried through it.
The veil was the first thing I knew I wanted to keep. Before the wedding I had our date embroidered into it, a small detail most guests would never notice, but one that turns it into something to hand down rather than something to store. One day I'd love someone I love to wear it, with our date stitched into the tulle beside theirs.
Then there is the dress. I'm currently talking to Studio Phini about what could come next for my bridal looks, and I'll be sharing where that conversation leads.
The bouquet is a different story. I would have loved to have it preserved, and I didn't organise it in time. Flowers don't wait, and in the happy blur of the days after a wedding it is so easy to let that window close. If there is one thing I would tell every Bride reading this, it is to decide what you want to keep before the day, not after.
So, here is everything I have learnt, and the partners I'd trust with the pieces that matter most.